You say you had a Heartbreak?

#1 Recently many of you must have gone to watch the movie Dangal. If not, just see it once, it’s a must watch. *spoiler alert*. That’s a movie which inspires people from many orthodox areas to let their daughters pursue great heights. The father of two daughters has the thirst of getting medal in Olympics for the country. So he puts them through vigorous training from childhood.  So in this script, the elder daughter has some ego clashes with him after becoming financially settled. She goes back to the city not to talk to her father for months. At that point we pity on her father, as how hard he worked on her and what did he get in return.

This was just a situation in the movie. Do you have any idea how many people actually did this to their parents. Many of them don’t have any reason too. They just abandon them as they considered them a burden.

#2 There is a shopping complex in the state capital market. It is the major supplier of gifts, jewelry, cosmetics and a versatile set of market products. A shop owner had a three floor handbag outlet there. He worked several years and made his business a success and earned lots of money. Then one day a short circuit happened and whole complex turned into ashes.

How do you feel if you make a dish whole heartedly? And then someone gives you a push a you drop the plate. Then can you even guess what pain must the shop owner is going through?

## What I am trying to say is everyone has their own set of problems.

What is the point of whining about yours? You get depressed if parents shout on you. You complain if someone isn’t giving you attention. You say it’s a bad day if you had a fight with someone you love. Trust me complaining would only make the things worst for you. It’s only you who could make the situation better or worse. Thinking about it all time and crying about it may cause the person around you to stay away. You can be tagged a bag full of misery by him/her. And maybe they have their own problems too. Now if you say that letting our heart out make us feel better. Can I tell you a better way to feel better?

First analyze what the actual problem is. Then when you get the situation, just laugh about it. Yes, everyone have their sunny and rainy days. No situation is ever constant in life. Things surely get better. And they get better faster when you stop over thinking and just laugh it out.